It’s my 40th birthday on April 7. 40. Forty. Veertig jaar oud. And here I am still fucking around in the dark, playing house-house and Mother and Step Mother, not having a clue what I’m doing. I have come to the conclusion, that this is life, do we ever really know what we’re doing?
I had an expectation that things would get easier as I grew older. What a fucking let down the day you realize that it really doesn’t get any easier, the situation just changes and there are new challenges every day that Lord knows how you’re supposed to handle. I often joke and say “This is why I drink” but seriously, this is why I drink.
Every day I wake up and I am convinced that from this day, I will be a better person. I will not swear any taxi drivers, I will take a couple of deep breaths and let them pass me by and wave sweetly and not let my already increased heart rate shoot up to 160 beats per minute. I tell myself that today I will not honk, or wave flailing hands at any young drivers that clearly has no idea that when the lights go off, all traffic lights should be treated as a 4-way stop. And trust me, this is South Africa, our lights are off more than they are on. I tell myself, and I truly believe myself every morning when I have my pep-talk about staying positive today, that I. Will. Not. Have. Any. Wine. Today.
I fail. Every day. But it’s the good intentions that count, right?
You know how there’s this common myth that says white alcohol doesn’t smell on your breath? Is it the same for white wine? Could I risk pouring myself a flask of Sauvignon Blanc in the mornings and sip this as if it is coffee whenever taking fourteen million breaths doesn’t bring my heart rate down and flipping off the old tannie in the 1965 Green Toyota Corolla (jammer Ouma) does nothing for my blood pressure? Is day-drinking a thing yet? Considering most of us worked from home and I am pretty sure the drinking (whenever we are allowed to buy alcohol I should add), commenced no later than 15:00?
Ryno told me I needed a hobby. I think he meant another hobby but something else to take my mind off the traffic and the cooking and the homework etc etc etc. I told him drinking wine is my hobby.
All jokes aside though, is it really the middle of March 2021 yet? But at least things are looking better than what they did on March 16th 2020. I will not say “it can’t get any worse than that” though… just now Uncle Cyril takes the wine away again and then I pity the fool that doesn’t know how a broken traffic light works.